两个人在一起

两个人在一起，

不是改变了对方，而是接受了对方，这就是包容。

无可否认接受不了对方，就改变了自己，因爱着了对方。

但改变了自己，不要失去了自己的特质，保留了自己的个性。

因每一个人都是独特的，至少为自己保存了尊严。

如果光想着改变自己与对方。

那不是生活，是约束。

也是战争。

要以不同的角度去看每一个人的美，

你会发现你爱的依然是昔日的他/她。

多站在对方的立场想想，

你会发现他/她不讨人厌，而是可爱地。

纯粹个人看法与意见.....

爱情的黑色幽默你知几分

台湾作家张晓风说过这样一句话：“生命是一次随时可以中止的契约，爱情在最醇美的时候，可以跨越生死。”年轻男女们，在这个速食爱情时代，关于爱情，灵子为大家总结了24条爱情的黑色幽默。

1、不要把爱情当游戏，拥有时就认真对待！

2、拒绝使用快餐爱情，感情不是用过就甩！

3、就算已经达到嘴对嘴的关系，也要保持手牵手的距离！

4、情书大全在图书的分类，应该属于科幻类！

5、不要以为男人喜欢瘦女人，他们要的是整体苗条，局部丰满！

6、男人的习惯是，说“我要你”时生猛有劲；讲“我爱你”时有气无力！

7、多少要学会一些糟蹋男人的方法，否则这么多的无聊男子该如何打发！

8、结婚前要做健康检查，恋爱时要做智力测验！

9、失恋的明显症状就是失态！

10、爱情老手，通常不会轻易将恋爱谈出结果！

11、从眼睛流露出来的爱情比较不容易造假！

12、要善待爱情，因为它不会一辈子跟着你！

13、男人心虚的反应常有两种，献殷勤和耍无赖！

14、婚姻是难度最高的爱情，因为必须边啃面包边谈它！

15、所谓外遇，就是有了爱情和面包之后，还想吃蛋糕的心情！

16、世界上没有不会做家事的男人，只有不愿做家事的丈夫！

17、做个智慧的女人，要懂得如何去爱一个男人和他的钱！

18、所谓罗曼蒂克就是帮老婆买回包心菜时会顺手带回朵玫瑰花！

19、不用怀疑，顺着红地毯的方向就能轻易地走到厨房！

20、好男人不是怕老婆，而是尊重老婆！

21、谨记不要因为爱眼中的他，失去他眼中的你!

22、谈好恋爱的秘诀在于，不必严肃，但必须正经！

23、选择好男人需要方法，在尚未抓到诀窍前只要学会说“不”！

24、男人女人，在一起互相珍重，分手时华丽转身！

25)眼泪的存在是为了证明悲伤不是一场幻觉

曾听人说过“喜欢是淡淡的爱，爱是深深的喜欢”。爱情于年轻男女来说，珍惜和付出会让爱情甜蜜发酵。所以，恋爱中的你们，要认真对待你们的拥有，不要等到失去时才感叹曾经没有好好珍惜。

Smile..... you are B3autiful

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL

James Blunt - You're Beautiful

My life is brilliant.
My life is brilliant.
My love is pure.
I saw an angel.
Of that I'm sure.
She smiled at me on the subway.
She was with another man.
But I won't lose no sleep on that,
'Cause I've got a plan.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.

Yeah, she caught my eye,
As we walked on by.
She could see from my face that I was,
Fucking high,
And I don't think that I'll see her again,
But we shared a moment that will last till the end.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
I saw your face in a crowded place,
And I don't know what to do,
'Cause I'll never be with you.

You're beautiful. You're beautiful.
You're beautiful, it's true.
There must be an angel with a smile on her face,
When she thought up that I should be with you.

But it's time to face the truth,
I will never be with you.

只是因为在人群中多看了你一眼

周华健 - 传奇

作词：刘兵     作曲：李健

只是因为在人群中多看了你一眼

再也没能忘掉你容颜

梦想着偶然能有一天再相见

从此我开始孤单思念

想你时你在天边 

想你时你在眼前

想你时你在脑海 

想你时你在心田

宁愿相信我们前世有约

今生的爱情故事不会再改变

宁愿用这一生等你发现 

我一直在你身旁 从未走远

D0 th3 w2Y y0u aR3

.

Bruno Mars - Just The Way You Are 

Oh her eyes, her eyes 

Make the stars look like they're not shining 

Her hair, her hair 

Falls perfectly without her trying 

She's so beautiful 

And I tell her every day 

Yeah I know, I know 

When I compliment her 

She wont believe me 

And its so, its so 

Sad to think she don't see what I see 

But every time she asks me do I look okay 

I say 

When I see your face 

There's not a thing that I would change 

Cause you're amazing 

Just the way you are 

And when you smile, 

The whole world stops and stares for awhile 

Cause girl you're amazing 

Just the way you are 

Her nails, her nails 

I could kiss them all day if she'd let me 

Her laugh, her laugh 

She hates but I think its so sexy 

She's so beautiful 

And I tell her every day 

Oh you know, you know, you know 

I'd never ask you to change 

If perfect is what you're searching for 

Then just stay the same 

So don't even bother asking 

If you look okay 

You know I say 

When I see your face 

There's not a thing that I would change 

Cause you're amazing 

Just the way you are 

And when you smile, 

The whole world stops and stares for awhile 

Cause girl you're amazing 

Just the way you are 

The way you are 

The way you are 

Girl you're amazing 

Just the way you are 

When I see your face 

There's not a thing that I would change 

Cause you're amazing 

]Just the way you are 

And when you smile, 

The whole world stops and stares for awhile 

Cause girl you're amazing 

Just the way you are

Do ur53ft, B3 Urself.

Do the way You are

Be Happy

:-)

I Think Of You

阿嫲....你快乐吗！

-.-

阿嫲....你快乐吗！

做为孙子我能力有限，而还是外孙。

我只能听闻，耳闻！

但愿你过得快乐。

我只有默默地祷告。